Aimee Martin
Relationships heal.
Patterns change.
Families find their way.
Real support for the people carrying more than most will ever see ~ in their relationships, in their parenting, and in their homes.
Certified Hypnotherapist & RTT Practitioner ~ Trauma-Informed Coach ~ Family Recovery Specialist
WHAT THIS WORK IS ABOUT
You are not the problem.
You're carrying an old pattern.
The way you show up in relationships ~ the over-giving, the peacekeeping, the guilt that follows you even when you are doing everything right ~ is not a character flaw. It is a strategy your nervous system learned, usually a long time ago, in a context where it made complete sense.
The work I do is not about fixing what is broken in you. There is nothing broken. It is about understanding the patterns that formed to keep you safe ~ and building something different, from the inside out.
"The patterns you carry are not who you are. They are what you learned. And what is learned can change."
Whether you are navigating your own relational patterns, trying to parent through complicated circumstances, or looking for a community that actually understands ~ there is a place for you here.
THREE PATHWAYS - ONE FOUNDATION
Where would you like to begin?
Each path is different. The work beneath them is the same: real tools, grounded in neuroscience and lived experience, for people who are ready for something that actually changes.
The Relational Reset™
For the patterns that keep repeating, no matter how hard you try
A neuroscience-informed group coaching program for people who are exhausted by their own patterns in relationships ~ the overthinking, the people-pleasing, the reactivity ~ and are ready to understand why, and build something genuinely different.
Understand your nervous system and why you react the way you do
Recognise relational patterns without shame or self-blame
Communicate more clearly and hold limits without guilt
Build real, lasting self-trust
Breakthrough Parenting®
When parenting gets hard, the right framework changes everything
A 25-year evidence-informed parenting program delivered with specialist training in complex family systems ~ addiction recovery, kinship care, reunification, and blended families. Official completion letters issued for courts and agencies.
Understand what is really driving behaviour beneath the surface
Communicate without triggering the same power struggle
Build self-esteem deliberately ~ even after it has been damaged
Sustain yourself so you can keep showing up
Tangled Vines Collective
You are not too much to handle. You are carrying too much alone.
A supportive community for caregivers navigating the in-between ~ grandfamilies, kinship care, blended families, and those carrying more than most people can see. Three tiers: Root (free), Unwind, and Grow. Start wherever you are.
Feel less alone and more emotionally steady
Real tools for the exhaustion that sleep does not fix
A community that understands your specific kind of complex
Start free ~ no pressure, no card required
THE PERSON BEHIND THE WORK
I didn't come to this from a textbook. I came to it because I needed it to survive my own life.
THE PERSON BEHIND THE WORK
I didn't come to this from a textbook.
I came to it because I needed it to survive my own life.
I am a nana raising two of my grandchildren in Alberta. I have loved my way through addiction, recovery, relapse, and reunification inside my own family. I separated from my husband for six years ~ we lived on opposite sides of the country ~ and we found our way back to each other after everything. My mother lives with us. My life is full in the way that does not fit neatly on a website.
I am not sharing this to impress you with what I have survived. I am sharing it because if you are here, your life is probably complicated in ways that most practitioners have not experienced personally. And I want you to know ~ before you read a single credential ~ that I understand what it feels like from the inside.
"The patterns you carry in your relationships are not who you are. They are what you learned. And what is learned can change. That is not something I read. It is something I had to learn inside the hardest years of my life."
I trained in each of my certifications because I kept encountering things in my own family I needed to understand more deeply. Not ambition ~ necessity. And because what I teach has to work on real life first. Mine included.
SEE WHAT'S POSSIBLE FOR YOU
Client Breakthroughs
These are real people, just like you — who took the first step and never looked back.
"…my self-esteem has really grown"
"Hi Aimee! Thanks for checking in. I'm still listening to your recording. I feel that my self esteem has really grown since we had our last session! Can't wait to witness it's lasting effect. Thank you for what you do!"
Maria. Singapore
"…such a totally SAFE place"
"Your empathy and compassion made it such a totally SAFE place for me to go so deep!! THANK YOU. It was such a surprise to have that depth of breakthrough!!"
Deb R.
"…safe, focused, and incredibly effective"
"Everything about the session felt safe, focused, and incredibly effective. This wasn't just a session. It was a life-shifting experience. I highly, deeply, recommend Aimee."
Barbara Z. UK
"…it was truly eye-opening"
"I recently had a session with Aimee, and it was truly eye-opening. She helped me discover where my Impostor Syndrome was coming from. I can't recommend her highly enough."
Gabriela R.
"…some incredible breakthroughs"
"Working with you was an absolutely wonderful experience. With such a welcoming, calm, and trusting environment, I was able to have some incredible breakthroughs. Thank you for creating such a safe space to heal."
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A CONVERSATION FIRST ~ ALWAYS
You have been the strong one for a long time.
Let someone hold that with you.
A free 30-minute clarity call. No script, no sales pressure, no obligation. Just an honest conversation about where you are and whether what I offer is the right next step.
If it is not the right fit, I will tell you that ~ and I will help you find what is.
WHAT I HOLD TO BE TRUE